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Note: Lois Malone was Arizona Goldmine Parker’s
Sister.
I am including it here because of her
relationship to our family and the information contained.
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INTRODUCTION
I am undecided
whether to begin this account with our maternal or paternal families. Perhaps I should start with the family I
think is the most important; not because it was the wealthiest and most
prestigious, but
because they were down-to-earth, honest, and
worthwhile people.
I have few
family records to research as to actual facts, and much of this will be
"hearsay" from others who spoke of certain happenings and events, and
some of it will be based on stories left behind by family members who knew of
the events. Some of these stories will
seem humorous and others somewhat tragic, but, all in all, they were our
family, bad and good, and since some of you children have expressed a desire to
know and to have some sort of record, I will oblige by giving you a direct and
honest account of all I remember and have researched.

HUGHES - BALLOU -
In writing this family history for you children, I must
tell you that much of it is by word of mouth from mother or father to sons and
daughters. We have no written proof of
most of the information. If Grandfather
Tyler or Great-grandfather Hughes had any family papers, they were lost during
the Civil War. Grandfather Tyler died
in the midst of the war, and the last place he lived was in
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I will begin with the
Hughes family because to me they and the Tylers are
responsible for any worthwhile characteristics we have inherited.
The first record of a
Hughes in
According
to family legend, Penn was related to the Hughes family, but it has not been
determined whether it was on the Hughes side of the family or that of the elder
Hughes' wife. The Hughes family came from
The Hughes family was very strict in religious
matters and also believed in the occult.
Great-great-grandfather
Hughes (who will be referred to as William Hughes the First) came from
Relation
to Me Relation to You Children
Cynthia Ann
Tyler Mother
Grandmother
m. Father
Grandfather
Thomas Bickerton Anderson
Rebecca
Hughes Grandmother G-grandmother
m.
John Hunter Tyler
Grandfather G-grandfather
William
Hughes II G-grandmother G-G-grandmother
m.
Prescilla Ballou G-grandfather G-G-grandfather
William
Hughes I G-G grandfather G-G-G Grandfather
William
Hughes,
came here with Penn G-G-G-grandfather G-G-G-G-grandfather
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Great-great-grandfather
Hughes's children were:
William
See information later in account.
Joseph
Went to California in the
1840's, but he remained in MariesCounty long enough
to beget three illegitimate daughters by the same woman, who later married Ake Rowden, and those offspring
were given the name Rowden. The three daughters married and their
descendants still live in
Joseph
died in
.
(Rowden, after the first wife died, married the widow of Joe
Hutchison, Jr., a nephew of your Grandmother Malone. You are related
through the Crum family to the Snodgrass, Malone, Hutchison, Brown, Bray,
Haines, and Myers families; through the Andersons to the Copelands, Tyrees, Grahams, Heltons, Breedens, Meltabargers, Bassetts, Russells, McDaniels, Nobletts, Knights, and many others. Also through the
Andersons or Hugheses you are related to the
grand-parents of Irene Murphy John.
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Actually
there are very few families in this county that are not related to you by blood
or marriage.)
John Who also made the trip to
Mary Only daughter. She married Priscilla Ballou's
brother William.
Noland
Died single in
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In 1807 Great-grandfather William Hughes met Priscilla Ballou (or Belleau) in
After a few years of married life they, together with
Great-grandfather's brother Joseph and several of the Ballous,
left
After settling for a while in
Eventually the Hugheses and Ballous ended up in
Grandmother Rebecca Tyler (nee Hughes) was born at
Hurricane Bluff in 1819. Then her
father, Great-grandfather Hughes, returned to
We have seen records of his filing on land in Pulaski
and
Great-grandfather Hughes was a blacksmith and an expert
gunsmith.
(** In 1830, Isaac Ballou (Bilyew, Birlew, Ballieu), probably a son of this Isaac, Priscilla's
brother, and his young wife, both under 20 years of age, settled on the Tavern
Creek, near Iberia in Miller County. He
hunted for three years with the famous (or infamous) Chief Rogers, the
half-Indian who supposedly was part Indian.
Isaac bought corn from his neighbors, ground it into meal, and, with
hunting, made his living that way. The Ballous voted Republican.
I wonder what became of all of them.)
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GREAT-GRANDFATHER HUGHES' CHILDREN
McKamy Wilson
The eldest, born in
b.4/18/1808 his life in
d.9/13/1887
Married Elizabeth
Davidson, sister to the Davidson who was the first husband of your
great-grandmother Malone (nee Sarah Snodgrass). They
had 8 children, 4 boys and 4 girls:
Harriet - married Larkin Crane.
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Melvina - married
a Briggs, Civil War
veteran, Union Army; killed at
Lucinda -
married James Knight; no children.
Priscilla
- married a Bassett: lived in
John
P. - married Mary Tackett.
Elisha - married Rachael J. Roach.
Hiram
- married Sarah Frances Eads
George
H. - no data.
Hiram Second son, born in
Hiram rode for Mischal and was
sent on long journeys to cattle and mule markets. He was gone for over a year
on one of trips. Upon his return he
found his wife with a new baby (not his), and then decided to join the other
members of the Hughes family in
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Stephen Third child, no information.
John Never married.
Elisha
Married Mary Coleman, a banker's daughter San Jose,
John - no information
Frances -
Married John Colbert, and later a man named Fabrette.
Children of both marriages • still live in
David Also made the trip to
Melvlna Died single.
Elvira Married a man by the name of Johnson.
They had two children. If I am not
mistaken, Johnson was a great-uncle of Milt, Tom, and Millard Shockley. After
Elvira died from ill treatment and neglect by her husband, Johnson married a
great-aunt of Lucy Henderson.
Johnson was so stingy that Elvira had to fasten
her clothing with thorns. This Johnson was a brother of the "famous" Mischal Johnson, preacher, teacher, cattle man, and, as the
Hughes family tells it, a rustler besides. He was considered a very wicked man,
and those at his bedside at the time of his death saw "a ball of fire
emerge from his coffin and fly out the open door." They were so frightened
they left. (An old ghost story!)
Elizabeth First married a man named Shobe; one daughter, Jane. Second marriage to
William Wright; two sons born of this union.
Priscilla Died single.
Rebecca First marriage to William Tucker
of Fayetteville,
b.1819
d.1904
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(Rebecca, cont'd)
Minerva -
After death of Aunt
Fanny (
Minerva
married a man named Olmstead and lived in
and a
boy whose name I do not remember.
Second marriage:
After the death of Tucker, Rebecca married John Hunter Tyler.
They had six children.
My Grandfather Tyler was a
widower with three sons. Aunt Nancy said he was born in
Grandfather Tyler claimed direct descendancy
from the rebel "Wat Tyler", who lived in
the fourteenth century. There has been a Wat in each
generation of Grandfather's family.
He also claimed to be a cousin of President John
Tyler. Their fathers or grandfathers were brothers and the maternal name must
have been Hunter, which was Grandfather's middle name. He had several brothers,
all in favor of the North, although he was a rabid Southerner. During the Civil
War he did not try to keep in touch with his family, who were Northern
sympathizers. He also had no use for President John Tyler, who he said was a
Tory.
Grandmother had been left quite well off -- William
Tucker had owned an inn or hotel; but her finances were tied up in Confederate
money, so she lost the hotel and, probably with Grandfather's help, lost
everything else. He was never satisfied to stay in one place too long. That's
when they moved to Hartville, and that's where my mother was born.
Grandfather Tyler was 60 years of age when the war
came, and he tried every way he could to get into the army so he could fight
for the South. When he failed, he formed a militia
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in
Hartville. He was a totally
self-sufficient man, and in one instance when Union soldiers tried to take his
horse, he dared them to take it. They
left with the excuse that the reason they didn't take the horse and shoot him
was that he was 60 years of age. The
soldiers came back after dark and stole his horse.
One battle between the
North and South was fought near Hartville.
After the battle the hallway of the courthouse was full of bodies, and
he helped bury the dead of both sides.
Not long after, Grandfather died. He was buried on the bank of
After his death
Grandmother Tyler came on to
GRANDMOTHER
REBECCA'S CHILDREN
d.1/2
/1928
Ruth b.7/20/1850 Born in
The other daughter, Julie, disappeared.
Elisha William Born in
b.
Thomas Born in
d. 1938
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Cynthia
Born in
b.
d. 1949, age
93 children:
Harriet -
Born Sept. 25. 1881
Died
John Paul Vane - Born
Three children:
Rachael
- lives in
Thomas - lives in
Lucille -
married
Addie Aletta - Born
Jan. 1, 1885; died in 1942. Married Ira C. Calkins. Two boys:
Llew, who died on
Don, who lives in
Mary Lamar - Born 1882; died in infancy.
Lois Agusta - Born
Nine children.
(see
Mildred - Born
Bernard - deceased; single.
Helen - married Robert Hight;
lives in
Second marriage to John Waidelich;
One child, Donna.
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Grace - Born
Naomi - Married Morris Byrd;Two daughters:
Julie; married, now divorced.
Suzanne;
married R. Faris; two children;
David and Sarah.
Glen - Grace's twin brother; died in infancy.
b. 1359
Bayard - Married Oma
Hutchison. Five children.
Charles - Died single.
John - Died single.
William Columbus -
Nicknamed "Snits." Married a daughter of Charles Spratley, whose mother was a Copeland, a second cousin of
mine. They had one daughter, Olive, who married a man named Eikoff.
After Aunt Zone was born, Grandmother left her unnamed for so
long that Grandfather said if she didn't name that child soon he was going to
call her "
Grandmother Tyler named her first
Grandfather's
two oldest boys by Cynthia Chestnut died soon after he and Rebecca were
married.
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then decided to gamble instead and made his fortune. He wrote he was
coming home and Grandmother would never have to work again. That was the last
they ever heard of him. He probably was murdered too, as was John Hughes,
Mama's uncle.
Several
of Grandmother Rebecca's Ballou relatives left
I
could also write about the hard life most women suffered during that Civil War,
and before, when living was pretty primitive and downright dangerous from wild
animals, or, once in a while, an Indian or two creeping from the forests.
But
I'd better go on and finish this Tyler-Hughes story and try to get it all down
without getting sidetracked so often.
Well,
this story is about finished. Sometime, some of you could do a bit of investigating
into the
Grandmother
Rebecca was left quite well off by her first husband, but due to bad management
she lost it or it was wasted. Grandfather was never happy to stay in one place
for long at a time. In fact, our whole family is touched with the same disease.
Grandmother Tyler used to say that we were part of the "Lost Tribes of
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and omens. Elisha Hughes and his niece
Frances (my mother's half-sister) were mediums and also kept in Couch with each
other by what we now call ESP. No wonder their descendants have had a I difficult time trying to disbelieve in ghosts. Well,
there is an old
saying, and I Chink it applies especially to the Welsh people, that "The
young shall dream dreams and the old shall see visions." That attitude is
not wholly on the Hughes-Tyler side; the Wisemans
were also "touched."
It is a bit too much for me to straighten out the various
intermarriages, but King's book will show you that the Ballou,
Wiseman, and Hughes families intermarried with the Andersons and that Maries
County was pretty well settled by offspring of Chose families, along with the Heltons, Vaughns, and Eads
families, who also intermarried with them. All of them were first settlers of
this region; some, while it was known as part of
The Hughes family came
first. There are records of land they bought in what is now
The
In looking over a book published long before
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William
Hughes - 1830
Peter
Ballou
- 1833-39
Wm.
& Thos. Anderson - 1834
Andrew
Ballou -
1834
A.
G. Wiseman - 1834
T.
R. Wiseman - 1837
S.
A. Wiseman - 1838
John R. Ballou - near or same years as other Ballous
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William Anderson Birthdate
unknown. He was of Scottish descent. Wife was
supposedly Welsh, No information available regarding her.
Three children:
Thomas A. Anderson.
Born
Only son of William by his first
wife. Born in
(1)
Richard Watson - Born
Harriet Hoops;
one daughter:
Julia - Married Tom Watkins;
Two children:
Guy - married; childless
children:
Julia, deceased, single;
Richard, no data,
(2) Lucinda
Caroline - Born
(3) John
Edwards - Born
Married Susan Cansler. No
children. Susan married after John's death and had children, who now live
in
(4) James Monroe - Born
Married
(5) Mary
Frances - Born
(6)
Mathilda Roberta - Born 12/29/1852; died 2/15/1873, Married William Casebolt. No
children.
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*Seven children who lived to maturity
(7) Thomas
Bickerton - Born
Died
Your grandfather. Married Cynthia Ann
Tyler (Granny), who was born
Harriet Anetta - see page 8
James Paul Vane
- "
Addie Aletta - "
Mary Lamar
- "
Lois Augusta -
Born
Married George W. Malone in
1909. Nine children:
Cynthia Jeretta -
Born
James Paul - Born
Shawn - born
Danny -
born
Helton. One daughter, Allison.
John
Tyler - Born 12/17/1915, at
Married Kathryn Wenzel
Three children:
Pamela - born
Jeretta
- born
Carla - born
Rachael Gail -
Born
divorced; no
children.
Robert -
Born
Salo. Eight children:
Cynthie (
Curt Nelson; three daughters.
Robert (
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Becky (
Timothy (
Meribeth
(
David - single; now in Navy.
Jennifer - single - at home.
Michelle - Called Shelley. At home.
Helen - Born
Married Lloyd Steen, divorced; one son:
Michael John (
Married Harlan Lincoln Harner, who was born
Stephen
(
Jeffrey (
Lauric (
Brian (
Jean - Born
Sue -
born
Michael
Wenger.
Terry - born
Loyal
Smith - born
Patricia - born
Carl Tyler - born
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Brian
- Born
Nancy Secrest, born
Two
daughters:
Nancy
Jane - born
single.
Bridget - born
single.
Patricia
- Born
Gus
James; two children:
Julie
- born
Jeffrey
- born
Mildred -
see page 8 Grace & Glen - see page 9
(8) William Davenport. Born 1 /12/1860. Married Mame
William
Anderson's second child by his first wife was:
Nancy Ann - who first married John Washam;
they had one daughter, Julia Ann. Later she married Hood Vaughn (
Elizabeth - his third child by
his first marriage. Married a Tipton. One son, Samuel.
William's
second marriage was to a Miss Lacy. They had 5 children;
Isaac - married Kitty Ann Crawford; several
children, two of whom married Menteer men in
William
- twice married; two children.
James - married Harriet Hedrick; two children.
Emeline - married James Belk.
Rebecca
Ann - married Stephen Bilyey (Billyeu?)
Mahala Anderson - married John Taff.
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Grandfather
Thomas A. Anderson came here from
When
Grandfather left
In
those days of bad or no roads, the ministers would travel by horseback. It was
slow and tiring work, and sometimes young couples who wanted to marry had to
wait a long time for the preacher to arrive to marry them; then, possibly, when
he did get around to them they had already gone to housekeeping and some
probably had families started. It was not "hippy" style living. Some
of them, however, would go through a private ceremony until the preacher could
arrive to make the marriage legal. In one case, the couple set up housekeeping,
then made a ceremony of planting a tree, by each, near the door -- somewhat
like, only better, than "jumping over the broomstick," which was also
a sort of wedding ceremony for some* Everett King told me this.
Grandmother
Myra's family had come to
The
first daughter to be born to Grandfather and Grandmother Anderson died after
three months. Uncle Richard was born when Grandmother was 15, on
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Edwards
was born December 16, 1844; James Monroe, July 20, 1848; Mary Frances,
September 13, 1850; Mathilda Roberta, December 29,
1852; Thomas Bickerton, December 25, 1855; William
Davenport, January 12, 1860.
There
is a notation in the "DEATHS AND BIRTHS" of a Mathilda
Catherine Wiseman, born
Grandmother
Myra had little to do in the home, since there were slaves to do the work. She
sewed for all of them, however, and the little Negro children grew up wearing
the same sort of garment my father and his brothers wore for every day -- a
long, shirt-type garment. I don't know what type clothes they had for special
occasions, but the long, shirt-type is what they wore at home. The young Black
children also attended the primitive school the Anderson boys attended until they
were old enough to be put Co work, or sold, as the case might be.
Grandfather
Tom Anderson and his father had large tobacco barns on the land near Lane's
Ford. Steamboats could come that far up the river then and Cake the tobacco to
market. He had also built large barns on his homestead for his stock, plus a
building for a store where he kept merchandise for the neighborhood. His nephew
from
Grandfather
took care of his estate, traveled here and there on business matters, hobnobbed
with the officials in
Grandfather
died during the Civil War and his estate was in the hands of two different
executors until Richard was of age. One executor was John Felker,*
Grandfather's son-in-law; the other executor was also a son-in-law.* when
Richard Cook over the estate was already dimished to
some extent. By the end of the war the slaves had left. Grandfather had freed
most of them before the war began. After that it was a downhill course for his
holdings. My father was about five years old when Grandfather died. Until my
father was about 18, things were pretty comfortable. Grandfather accumulated
what he left in twenty years and by the time my father
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*Husbands of his two illegitimate daughters
was 24 it was all gone!
The only one living in comfort at that time was Richard. I shouldn't hold him
and the other executors to blame entirely, for the family, as a whole, thought
they could go on living easy, Richard and Monroe's wives, both daughters of another wealthy man, insisted
on keeping to their way of life.
The
manual labor. They liked
gambling, drinking, horse racing, and that was the extent of their knowledge;
although Uncle Richard had become an attorney and should have known how to
handle estates. Grandfather left a will, leaving the home and land thereon to
Grandmother, but the other wealth of his estate was to be equally divided among
his children, legitimate and illegitimate. It seems the illegitimate children
benefited most. All the boys married women who liked the rich and comfortable
way of living. My father married a sensible woman, although poor, and until ray
father's death the family was well provided for, although he was lame from
arthritis and blind in one eye from neuralgia since the age of 18.
My Papa had attended the
Great-grandfather
William wasn't more than 60 or 65 when the war broke out. He seemed to be a
mysterious sort of person, (going back and forth from
I'm sure if I had been interested about family while Grandmother
Myra lived, she could have told me everything I want to know NOW, But young people never seem to be concerned about the past.
I know more about my mother's family and personal life than I do about my
father. The
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Richard
graduated from law school and practiced law until his death. He, too, was
crippled from arthritis. Richard married Harriet Hoops, from another wealthy
family in
John
Anderson married Susan Cansler and died, childless,
from poisoned whiskey. It was told that John Felker
(married to Amanda, one of Grandfather Tom's illegitimate daughters) and Dr.
Irvin Jones (married to the other illegitimate daughter, Jane) put drugs in
John's jug of whiskey and sent him home, hoping, they said, that he would go to
sleep and there would be no trouble from an old enemy coming to town. Their
story was that it was to keep the two men from meeting; however, he died from
the effects of the drug and whiskey, but no investigation was ever made. Of
course, the other point of view was that the two daughters would have stood to
inherit more.
Roberta,
the only daughter then living, married William Casebolt,
and died childless and young.
Mama
always said the Bick's family had disapproved of their marriage from the
beginning, and were not pleased with his choice of a wife, regardless of the
fact that she actually came from a better class of people, although not
wealthy, but honest and decent. The
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It
is remembered by our family that Mr. Bray was one of the very firm, good
friends of my Papa. He helped him in his political career, and when Papa became
too ill Co run for office again, Mr. Bray encouraged Mama to announce for the
office. When it was said that she could not raise the bond because of being
poor, Mr. Bray said, "Hell, I'll pay the bond myself!" At that time,
it seems to me, it was quite a heavy one -- thousands for the Treasurer's
office -- but it was almost unheard of for a woman to hold office at that time,
and she had three or four opponents. One was Papa's nephew. She lost, but we
have always remembered Tom Bray with affection.
In
Chose days people paid their taxes and other expenses
with gold coins, and Grandfather did almost entirely with gold.
Great-grandfather had an old Scotch gardener who had come with the family from
England and on to Maries County with them. He expected his wages Co be paid in
gold. No one ever knew what he did with his money, since he had no expenses and
never went to town. When he wanted whiskey, he had access to Grandfather's
supply. Grandfather kept it by the keg or barrel. Grandmother made his
cloches. He apparently buried the gold somewhere, but none of the Andersons
thought to look for it after his death. When the Anderson home was sold Co Schenker, the new owners practically dug up the place, tearing
the rocks out of the wall of the cistern, looking for the old Scot's fortune in
gold.
The
house still stands, solid as ever, but doesn't look as it did in those days. It
was originally built of logs hewed smooth and put together with huge pins
instead of nails, and made as storm-proof as a house could be made. The wide
floor boards are still there, but the house has been weatherboarded
over the logs and modernized to some extent. It could not be considered a very
comfortable house now. The slave cabins, of course, and all the old buildings
are gone, and it has the reputation of being haunted from the time Mama and
Papa were married. It is said some very odd things happened, not only while the
Andersons lived in it, but after other people took possession. (Probably Grandfather
Anderson's ghost coming back to haunt those who abused his authority!).
I am 84 years of age at the present, and it was only about three years ago that
I visited that house. It is not far from where we live, and where I lived most
of my life, and somehow I had a feeling that I belonged there. But, not so! It
might have been the home of a total stranger instead of the home of my
ancestors. Guess I'm not psychic after all. I am not particularly proud of the
Andersons I knew, but I can respect my Grandfather because he was a man of
vision and ambition. He did a lot to build up Vienna and Maries County.
Nothing
is ever said about the part Grandfather played in the formation of the County,
although the Shockleys and Johnson families were
frequently written up regarding their contributions to the formation of Maries
County.
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Not
many people know that although Mr. William Shockley gave 70 acres of the town
site, he bought back all the land south of the courthouse (from one block
south). Thomas Anderson bought all the lots north from where the old Henderson
Hotel stood. That money went into establishing the county seat and deeding the
cemetery acreage to the town. After Grandfather died, Uncle Richard then sold
the lots off one by one; also, on the east side of the courthouse there is a
two-block square, from Main Street east, taking in four blocks Chat never had a
good deed made for any of it until Everett King bought the building where now a
new clothing store stands. My sister Mildred and I signed away our rights to
that lot.
It
Is not understandable how other people bought their
places without "good" deeds, for evidently Uncle Richard, or one of
the executors, just sold the land without making out deeds. Everett King told
me this, but the back taxes on those four blocks would have been out of reason
for any claim to have been made after so many years. We do know that a nephew
of my Papa's, Thomas Felker, and John W. Terrill had
owned the lots at one time, and since both were lawyers, they knew as well that
the land could not legally have been sold. Crookedness goes on in small towns
much the same as in large ones.
I
have no idea how Grandfather Anderson treated his slaves while he lived; he was
stern with his children, but Grandmother said the Negroes were all anxious to
be free. There was only one slave who wanted to stay,
but his wife left and he had to go too. This was old Elijah (or Lige, as they called him). He was a Negro chat Thomas's
father had seen on one of his buying trips down south. He seemed about
Grandfather Thomas's age, about three years old, too small to walk chained to
the other slaves. He bought him and brought him to Mississippi. Tom and Lige grew up together, but Lige
was left behind when Tom came to Missouri. When Tom's father (William) died,
his estate was sold, and a man by the name of Wherry
bought Lige. After Grandfather married,
the man who bought Lige died, and he was again up for
sale. He sent word to Grandfather Tom to be sure to come to the sale.
Grandfather saddled an extra horse and rode and bought him. He lived at the
Anderson place until he was free. He left his son James to live with the
Andersons, but James, who had been almost as well educated as the Anderson
boys, didn't stay long. He went to Springfield, married, and reared two sons
who became fine men. One was a lawyer. The two old slave bills are still in
existence, but not with our branch of the family.
Grandmother
Myra was a typical little black-eyed Jewess. The family was close-knit and she
was not one to visit neighbors. She lived only for herself and her family. She
always called Grandfather "Mr. Anderson." If there was ever any
jealousy on her part coward the other women Grandfather knew, it was never
mentioned by her.
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Great-grandfather
William, who sent Grandfather Tom packing to keep him from marrying the Widow
Lacy, married the sister of the Widow Lacy after Grandfather Tom left
Mississippi. William fathered several other children (half-brothers and
half-sisters of Grandfather Tom) and also came on to Missouri to settle not far
from Grandfather's home. Two of the grandchildren married Menteer
men in Jefferson City. Their descendants still live there. One of the
half-sisters went to Springfield and the others died in a typhoid epidemic. The
names of these children are in Everett King's book.
The
strain of bluegrass in Maries County and adjoining counties was brought by
Grandfather Tom by ox team to his home in Maries County from Kentucky. He was
the owner of about thirty slaves, which does not sound too commendable at this
writing.
Grandfather
brought his sister Nancy Washam and her little girl
Julie with him when he came to Missouri. Nancy had been married to a man named Washam, but had divorced him later. Julie had stayed with
her father after the divorce. After Grandfather's wagons had left Hernando,
Nancy told him to go on, she had forgotten something. She rode back, snatched
up her little girl, and caught up with the wagon train. She also was well off
financially. Within a short time after coming to Missouri, she married Hood
Vaughn, who is related to Grandma Graham, Howard's grandmother.
After
Julie grew up she married Tod Helton and became the
great-grandmother of Paul's wife Velcia, and also the
ancestress of the two Shelton boys, whose mother is Hazel Birmingham's sister.
Grandfather
Tom laid out his own racetrack -- the famous Cloverleaf Track, known all over,
not only in Maries County but also in the state. People at that time were as
race crazy as they are now. Thomas had brought a famous stallion here, and
Nancy -also had a fine horse. People from far off would come to the races.
Grandmother Myra didn't approve, but kept quiet, listening every moment for
some one to be brought in with a broken neck. You didn't have to be
wealthy to race -- just so you had a fast horse, and nearly everyone around
here had one. Uncle Tom Tyler had a racer and he was comparatively poor. The Canslers, Joneses, and others all had horses. After
Grandfather died Monroe carried on the racing stable until the estate was so
diminished he finally had to give up the home place.
In
those days it was not only the Andersons who drank, raced, and gambled. Vienna
had always had two open saloons. My mother and father lived in a log
house just back of one saloon (where the Gazette office is now), and night
after night men would sit in the back room of the saloon and shoot at tin cups
of whiskey on each other’s heads. The bullets would pop into the log walls of
my parents' house. Will Jones, son or my father's
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brother-in-law, and George Cansler, another relative
of ours with a bar sinister (Hughes), son of Henderson Cansler,
would ride through the streets of Vienna with the bridle reins held in their
mouths and a pistol in each hand, shooting at the sky. No law and order,
especially for what was considered the elite of Vienna; and make no
bones about it, Vienna, a scrub town, did have its elite class, mostly
old Southern families who settled here. Grandfather among
them.
I
have said he was stem with his children. My father, Bick, was quite young when
Grandfather Tom died, and until he was 17 or 18 he had a pretty easy life.
Uncle Richard was the sober one of the family, never drinking to excess, but it
was through his hands that most of the estate disappeared. The more underprivileged
neighbors would come asking help of some sort, and Aunt Roberta, who was tender
hearted, would give them meat until Grandfather put a lock on the smokehouse
door. Then she would have one of the Blacks climb up and remove a few shingles
and get what she wanted.
Besides
supervising his farm, Grandfather bought and sold cattle, mules, and horses;
was on seemingly good terms with everyone but one family here by the name of Crismon. Crismon also had a fine
race horse and at one time just before a race (in the night) damaged or tore up
part of the track. He and his brother hated Tom and plotted to "get"
him at a time he was exercising his big horse. They thought he would not dare
leave his horse loose to fight back. However, he held the bridle in one hand
and whipped both of them. I don't know the real reason for the enmity, but
considering Tom's ego, he perhaps had slighted them in a way that only an
arrogant Southerner knows best. Grandmother Myra hated them too. But anything
"Mr. Anderson" (as she called him) did was gospel with her. He must
have been a loving husband, for she mourned him all those long years afterward.
Whether she knew of his chasing other women and having fathered several more
illegitimate children in Maries County, we have no idea. She never mentioned
anything about it, although most of their own family knew about it. Several
good farms were deeded by him to the mothers of those children. In one case I
know of, he also stocked the farm. Grandfather was a large and tall man; had to
have his hats and boots made to order, but none of his sons was more than
ordinarily tall. Richard and Monroe were the "dandies" of the family.
Both were old enough to attend balls and "to-dos" with him, with
their ruffled shirts and fancy clothes, before he died. But during the Civil
War, Richard, instead of enlisting, paid another man $800 to fight in his
place. That was legal, if you were a coward or not. Quite different from my
mother's father, who, at the age of 60, tried to enlist on the side of the
South and was refused, so he formed a militia at home. I'm afraid the Anderson
family, per se, can't stand up to be admired, except that Thomas was ambitious
and had a vision of what he and his family of boys could accomplish.
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That ambition died when he did. My father, of all of them, was
the only really honest one, and I've always believed it was because of my
mother, who would never have agreed to any hanky-panky of any sort. He did,
after ten years of marriage and heavy drinking, finally realize what he was
doing to a very good and faithful wife, and suddenly quit his alcoholism,
became a "true Christian", and gave her seven years of comparative happiness.
By "true Christian" I mean he changed in so many ways. He had no use
for anyone who was weak enough to drink or gamble -- no in-between colors
--everything was a sin or it wasn't. Then he died and left her with five
children to rear with no help of any sort. Lucky for us that She had a quiet
determination to see that we were kept clean, dressed as well as any other
children of that time, and given the best education available. One reason we
got through our young years without any heartburnings
for things we didn't have was that she taught us that money and the things
money could buy didn't amount to a "hill of beans" unless you had a
"good" family back of you, which we felt we did.
Although
my mother knew the Andersons intimately -- their shortcomings, etc. -- she also
admired what she heard from Grandmother Myra and my father of Thomas
Anderson's fierce pride in his family background (as proud in some ways as she
herself was), his independence, and ambition. He was not particularly
"purse proud" but was a man who expected, and tried as long as he
lived, to build up a family dynasty that he would be satisfied with. He was
well liked by his neighbors, with one exception, and did a lot for Maries
County in Crying to establish a county seat: dividing Gasconade into several
different counties; establishing roads throughout the county, which at that
time was mostly virgin timber and wide prairie (on the east side), and
establishing churches and schools.
He
deeded the present cemetery acreage to the Catholic Church, so he was not a
religiously biased man. When the few members of the church decided it was too
far out for a church, a plot in town at the present place was secured, and the
acreage was given as a cemetery for both Catholic and Protestant, with the
proviso that no lot was to be sold for individual use. He owned land (farms) in
every direction from the town; for one, the farm and land adjoining Howard
Henderson's farm, and as far as Vichy. There is land chat once was his
northwesterly along the Maries almost to the mouth of the Maries into the
Osage. President Van Buren was in office then and sold grants of land for 25
cents an acre. Grandfather owned in Maries County alone well over 5000 acres.
His Blacks cleared and planted the crops. We have Grandfather's deed to his
first home, which is signed by Van Buren.
He
was a man of wide vision. The pity of it is that at his death all progress
stopped. He didn't have one son who could manage as he did, especially after
the freeing of the Blacks put a stop to hard labor.
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Although
he did many things we disapprove of, such as his interest in women other than
his wife, we can give him credit at least for his ambition and also for the
fact that his close personal friends liked and admired him to the point that
many named their sons Anderson in his honor -~ the Jones, Bowles, Bray, and
other families.
Grandmother
Myra told of a sore spot coming under her tongue
from smoking her pipe.
She was worried that it might be malignant. People in that day never discussed
cancer. She said that "Mr. Anderson" came to her in a dream and
said: "Myra, get some yellow Pocoon (a medicine
used then) and keep it on that spot." 1C apparently was successful. Yellow
Pocoon is made from the root of the plant, dried and
powdered. It would appear that not only the Hugheses
and Tylers saw visions and dreamed dreams.
Grandfather's
sister Elizabeth (Aunt Betsy) Tipton's daughter married a man named Robinson.
Their daughter Eudora has a town named for her on or near the line between
Mississippi and Arkansas. She married a man named Deane and her daughter lived
in Tampa, Florida, where "Cousin Dora" died about the time of Everett
King's death. Any data on the Anderson family died with her. We had kept in
touch up to that time, but my family and troubles multiplied too fast for me Co
do anything further. As far as I know now, the only living direct descendants
of Thomas Anderson are myself, Mildred, Grace, and* Mamie's
daughter, and, if they are living, Guy Watkins (who must be 90 years old) and
Cousin Julia's grandson (Dickenson). He graduated from West Point some forty
years, more or less, ago. Then there are Paul's and Addie's
children. No others. Paul's son Tom lives in Denver. He has been married twice
and has two children by his first wife, one boy and one girl. Anyhow, the last
of the legal Anderson name.
The
Andersons were Scots. Great-grandfather Anderson's wife was Welsh. The Hugheses were both Welsh; the Tylers
were English, although there was Welsh on the maternal side. The Wisemans were Jewish; the Ballous
were French.
* Mamie
was the daughter of James Monroe, my father's brother.
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My
mother came to Vienna several years after her mother and the others got here.
For six or seven years she lived with a cousin of Grandmother Tyler (William
Wright, in Wright County, Missouri). At nine years of age she had learned to
card and spin wool, then weave it into a piece of what
was known then as Linsey. Originally it would be a
sort of dirty white color, but the women would dye it brown with walnut hulls,
or with berry or bark for reddish colors; blue or red with homemade dyes, and
then make their dresses out of the heavy stuff and the pants and coats for the
men. Later on here, near
At
least every settlement had at least one shoemaker, gunsmith, and blacksmith.
The men molded their own bullets, built their own homes, and the women
gardened, canned, preserved, and dried fruits, sewed, and cooked with no modern
conveniences. I can remember my Mama having what was known as an "ash
hopper" in the back yard -- saving ashes and making lye to make her own
laundry soap, and also using the lye to make hominy. There were no nicely
scented bath soaps then. Both my grandmothers lived just such a primitive life,
but Grandmother Myra had it a bit easier. At first she had the Negroes to do the
heavy work. After Chat, she lived with one or another of her son's wives and
didn't have anything to do but sit and smoke her pipe.
Grandmother
Myra's parents had come from
Grandmother
Myra's mother's name was Federski or Featherski. I fancy the first spelling, and it sounds
definitely Polish.
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children
Between
the Wisemans, Copelands, Hugheses, Ballous, Eadses, and Heltons, not to
mention Breedens, Maries County and parts of Osage,
Miller, Pulaski, and Phelps counties were populated,
Mama
came to
From
that time, when she was 16, until she was 24, she lived and worked in Vienna. Sometimes for Aunt Harriet Anderson (Richard's wife). There
is where she learned to smoke a pipe, which she continued to do until after my
father's death. Aunt Harriet, Nan, and several older women (the so-called
social set of Vienna) all smoked pipes. They would gather at one home or the
other for their "hen" parties, and Mama was usually the one who
filled the pipes, lighted them, gave a few puffs to get them started, and
acquired the habit!
Mama
evidently didn't let the fact that she was poor and had to work for her living dampen her spirits. She told me she danced from the
stove to the Cable to whatever she had to do, and teased and played tricks on
people to aggravate them, until one night she stepped out after dark and came
face to face with a big bear (she supposed it was a bear), upright on its hind
legs. It just disappeared, but scared her so that she stopped the tricks. Most
people believed in ghosts, and I think that's what she thought it was. More
than likely it WAS a bear and she scared it just as badly. Anyway, she became
interested in religion and joined the Methodists. Some of her enthusiasm was
expended then in going to church and "feeling" the spirit, shouting
as they did then. Said they would stand up sometimes on the benches and clap
their hands, shout, and take on until their hair escaped the pins and combs and
tumbled down. That went on for some time until she
"backslid" and went to a dance. The Methodists "churched"
her, so for a time she danced to her heart's content, but eventually went back
and asked forgiveness and they took her back. She stayed a Methodist for nearly
ten years.
In
Chose ten years, after marrying my father, she patiently took care of him,
helping him dress and undress. He was badly crippled from arthritis and had
lost one eye from so-called neuralgia. She helped him at his office and also
helped him home when he had had too much to drink. In those first ten years he
came near to being an alcoholic. However, suddenly he just quit.
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Changed to a person who had no use
or sympathy for anyone who drank.
They both joined the Christian Church and from then for seven years he walked a
very straight and narrow path. They were very poor yet, for only when he held
his different offices were they reasonably comfortable (materially). But in
those seven years they bought a home and it was left clear at the time of his
death. Also Mama had four more babies, eight altogether, and she was left with
five to take care of. The oldest, Paul, was 14; the youngest was one year old.
At
that time too, both of them were what we would call (now) drug addicts. In
those days doctors had only morphine and opium for killing pain. Most people in
Vienna and Maries County thought nothing of asking for a dose of morphine or
opium. Most people, like my father and mother, kept it as we do aspirin. Or, if
in pain, they would go to the doctor and get it when they needed it. My father
began using it by the time he was 18 or 20 and had lost his eye from neuralgia.
Mama took it for her "spells" of colic (perhaps gallstones). Both had
their daily doses, and any child could go see the doctor for it when their
parents needed it. I have gone for a neighbor to the drugstore in Vienna and asked
many times for 25-cents worth of plain opium (a chunk about the size of a large
chocolate), a sort of brown waxy substance, with a slightly bitter taste. Used
just as commonly as we use aspirin. Very few people now would believe that
statement, but any old person of my age living now would tell you it is a fact.
I suspect my father was still using morphine daily to the day he died, and I
know Mama was for she told me that when Papa died she knew she would be wholly
responsible for us, with no help from anyone. She knew she would have to give
it up. So she took just a little less each day and soon was rid of the habit.
She had a fierce pride and determination to take care of us just as well as if
she hadn't lost my father.
And
I must say she did. She worked for other people, hard, toilsome work, starting
out at daybreak and sometimes it would be night when she got home. The snow
would be knee-deep at times. Then she would sit at her sewing machine until all
hours at night. She was the town's dressmaker. But how little she was paid
then! And her daily work never earned her more than 50 cents a day. Of course,
food was cheap then, but with five to feed and clothe, it was difficult. Not
only was she a good mother and a strictly religious one (too much so, we used
to think), but she was the wailing wall for all the
women of her church and social group. They all came to Aunt Cynthia with their
problems. I got to listen to a lot when I was about 8 years old, but didn't:
understand what I heard until years later. Poor Mama counseled more than one
troubled wife to hold on and be patient. The funny thing about gossip those
clays, it seemed to be the settled, middle-aged, married women who were
gossiped about and who caused all the trouble between decent women and their
husbands. Not the young girls at all. Of course there is no answer for a
straying husband.
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People sort of expect men to do so. But the best thing I can
think of for a wife or mother to keep on the straight and narrow is to have so
many children she doesn't have time to get into trouble. Frankly speaking,
though, I don't know which would be the best -- or worst.
Well,
to go on. As I have said, Mama was very strict with us. Not very demonstrative. None of us is. which
is as I like it. I can remember my father kissing me before he would go to work
and holding me on his lap when I was at least five years old, but I never
kissed my mother that I can remember except after I was grown, when she would
leave our place for somewhere else. But that doesn't mean she didn't care for
us. I think she would have willingly died for any of us. And we had a good home
life, with the comforts that any other child had, or nearly so. I don't think
any of us except Addie ever thought of ourselves as
being poor. We didn't feel poor, at least I never did, and our mother was not
one to complain about hard times, which is unusual. She had been advised to put
us in a "home'' and go to work in some large city. Whoever advised Chat
just wasted breath. She never would have given one of us up.
Well,
I've written all I know about your various heads of family. You can make your
own deductions as to what sort of people they were. There is, of course, some
worthwhile attributes in all of them, but I think you can all see that my
mother was actually the one above all of them who helped to mold all of you
into decent, honest people.
Grandmother
Tyler had just such a hard life as my mother after Grandfather died, working to
keep her family together. None of the older ones had more than three months of
schooling. Mama taught herself to read and write, and I suppose Uncle Cates did
the same. There were wild cattle, snakes, wild hogs, and other animals
Grandmother Tyler had to fight, besides leaving her small ones alone in a rural
area while she worked. Luckily she wasn't afraid of anything, wild or tame.
Indians hadn't entirely disappeared from this part of the country either. I've
hoard her tell about hiding two of her children under a big iron pot once when
she saw a couple of Indians looking toward the house when Grandfather was away.
They probably were just looking to see if there was something they could carry
off. But she didn't take a chance. The Union soldiers seemed a bigger threat to
her than any Indian, for what they didn't take they destroyed.
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CRUM, HUTCHISON, MALONE, and SNODGRASS
Of
the above, the Snodgrass family was one of the first settlers in
William
Malone disappeared after Hannah was born. He had come into
The
Malone son, your Grandfather James, grew up in
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* See King's book, page 629
Within
three weeks after
After
Harriet died he married the mother of Leslie B. Hutchison, prosecuting attorney
of
When
Robert Crum died in 1906 he was quite a wealthy man, but when his estate was
settled the two Coates children claimed Harriet as their natural mother and,
along with the last wife, Mrs. Hutchison, got the majority of his estate (by
law). Leslie Hutchison was their attorney. The Crum children were given $1, 000
each or land of that value. The Hutchisons were very
good people, respected and respectable. So was your Grandfather Malone, and
most of the descendents of Robert. But he was anything BUT!
The
children of Robert Crum and Elizabeth Hutchison were:
Rachael Jane (your grandmother)
John
LaNetfcie
Joseph
George Washington (known as
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Rachael Jane Crum married James Malone and
they had nine children:
Sarah - married a Romine; 5 children.
Mary
(or Moll) - married a West; then a Miller; 3 boys.
William - never married.
Henry - married a West.
Martha - married Jim West; 5 children.
(Viola's father)
George - married
Lois Anderson; 9 children.
Joseph - married
Anna Hastings; 3 children.
Ollie - married Ad Breeden; no children.
James - died in
infancy.
All
the Malones are dead except our family, Viola and her
two brothers and two sisters. One of Joe's children is living. Some of the Romines are in
On
my side of the family your bloodlines are English, Scot, French, Welsh, and
Jewish.
On
the Malone side the bloodlines are Irish, German (Dutch?), and English. So you
are pretty well a mixture of good and bad.
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GEORGE SNODGRASS Married a Johnson. They had six children. The youngest:
Sarah - Married William Davidson
(brother of Elizabeth Davidson, who was the wife of McKamy
Hughes, son of Wm. Hughes the Second)
One
daughter born to this union.
Second
marriage to WILLIAM MALONE; two children:
James - married Raphael
Jane Crum; 9 children:
Sarah -
married a Romine; 5 children
Mary_ -
married a West; then a Miller; 3 boys.
William -
never married.
Henry - married a West
Martha -
married Jim West; 5 children
George -
married Lois Anderson; 9 children. Joseph -
married Anna Hastings; 3 children.
Ollie - married Ad Bredden; no children
James -- died in infancy
Hannah - Married a Wm. Followill; 2 children.
Then married a John Prewell; 6
daughters.
Third marriage to Gabriel Myers; 4 children, one
survived:
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ROBERT SEVIER CRUM
- Born in
Married Elizabeth Hutchison; 7 children:
Rachael
Jane (your grandmother)
John
F.
LaNettie
Joseph
P.
George
Washington (known as: "
Mary
E. (married James Copeland)
William
J.
Agnes Collins,
second marriage (presumably a widow;, she brought two
children to
Louise Hutchison
(nee Krewson), widow of William Hutchison; third
marriage.
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THE CARVER FAMILY
Our connection with the
Carver family is a remote one. Joel
Carver married Louisa Jane Hughes, daughter of Hiram Hughes (son
of William Hughes II and brother of Grandmother Rebecca Hughes Tyler). Joel was the son of Richard Carver, second
son of Christian Carver. Louisa and Joel
were married in California in 1853 and had eight children, one of whom was Rose
Carver Danner, who has written a history of the Carver-Danner families.
The attached copies of
letters may be of interest since they are about the former slave George
Washington Carver. As you know, he
assumed the name of Carver after his owner and benefactor Mose
Carver.
Mose
Carver, born in 1812, was the son of Christian Carver, who was the son of the
first Carver of whom there is any trace.
Michael Carver settled in
On one occasion during
slavery days, just before the Civil War, Mose Carver
attended an auction sale. A colored
woman and her two little sons were put on the block Co be sold for a debt. Mose bid them in
for $750 but never made slaves of them.
He sent the boys to school and gave them a good home. While the war was
going on, Bushwhackers made a raid in his neighborhood and took the mother and
one of the boys, whose name was Jim. Mose and the other
boy, George Washington, hid and escaped capture. The mother was never heard of again. Little Jim was located and Mose gave a man $50 and a race horse to get him back. History shows what achievements George
Washington Carver went on to.
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UNITED STATES DEPARTMENT OF
THE INTERIOR
NATIONAL
PARK SERVICE
Diamond,
Mrs. Lois Anderson Malone Tav. Rt.
Dear Mrs.
Malone:
The National Park Service of
the Department of the Interior has recently acquired by donation the
correspondence of Dr. Richard Pilant, formerly of
Washington University, who was chiefly responsible for the passage of the
legislation creating George Washington Carver National Monument.
In
Dr. Pilant's file we have found your letter of June
15, 1953 advising in part that you have an item containing the history or the
Carver family and the Hughes family. If you have this material still in your
possession we would very much appreciate its loan. A research program
concerning the early life of Dr. George Washington Carver is now in progress and we are
trying to obtain ell possible bibliographical data relating to the Carver family
and the slave boy, George Washington Carver.
For
your convenience and reply a stamped self-addressed envelope is enclosed.
Sincerely
yours,
Clarence H.
Schultz
SuperinLendent
UNITED
STATES DEPARTMENT OF THE INTERIOR
NATIONAL PARK SERVICE
Diamond,
Mrs. Lois Anderson Malone
Tav, Rt.
Dear Mrs.
Malone:
This is written to thank you for the loan of your family
genealogy "A History of Christian Carver and Frederick Danner and their
Descendants" by J. D. Danner in collaboration with Rose carver Darner,
published in Willows, California in 1931. This material has been of great,
value to us and we appreciate your loaning it to us.
Sincerely
yours,
Clarence H.
Schultz
Superintendent
Enclosure